“Appreciation is the highest form of prayer, for it acknowledges the presence of good wherever you shine the light of your thankful thoughts.”
Alan Cohen
*My sincere gratitude to all Veterans who are serving and previously served our country. The sacrifices you made are truly appreciated.*
November is traditionally the month of gratitude and thankfulness. The urgency of summer has ended, and now there’s a gentle nudge… a consoling calm and peaceful presence. Just as the absence of light brings an earlier night, the absence of urgency allows us the time to reflect. We gain an enlightened awareness of what we’ve sown and our harvest that has come to fruition.
Many of you probably garden in some aspect. Whether it is on acres or in containers, it’s exciting to see the herbs, fruits, and vegetables grow and produce their yield. I planted only one eggplant plant, and I harvested over thirty eggplants! After roasting them, making batches of sauces for winter, and eggplant parmesan, I gave them to friends and family. I still have a couple more on the vine.
"The heart,” John Kornfield said, “is like a garden. It can grow compassion or fear, resentment or love. What seeds will you plant there?” When in recovery from loss, the soil of the heart is depleted; it is seemingly impossible to produce the joy it once held. We grieve deeply the losses, and it is only with cultivating, pruning, nurturing, and time, that we can begin to witness the fruition of our suffering. Suffering highlights our dependency on others and on God to carry us through the darkness.
Through the loss of our loved ones, we can gain an enlightened awareness of the magic of their relationships. Eventually, fear will surrender to compassion, resentment will resign to love. Ralph Marston wrote, "Truly appreciate those around you, and you’ll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.”
Although we did not grow old together, Jim and I were together for a while. And isn’t that all we really have anyway? Just a while?
Love those still in your life, with gratitude, and choose to live the time you still hold.