“No one can do everything, but everyone can do something.”
Max Lucado
Three years ago, I began planning life after retirement. I read, listened to podcasts, and circulated with people to find new opportunities. Most everywhere I’d go, I’d think, “I could work here!” Volunteer programs such as PreventEd and the International Institute are also ones that piqued my interest. A year ago, I was hired as a literacy coach at Dyslexia St. Louis, which I plan on working at well into my retirement. Retiring is not stopping; for me, it’s finding a new purpose.
My plan now certainly has deviated from the original my husband and I had envisioned. We planned on traveling, possibly moving to the California coast, grandparenting, and growing old together. Now that I am no longer an us, and now a me, I had to recalibrate and discern what it is I alone still need to do.
Although we had plans, God’s plans ultimately prevail. In Romans 8:28, it is written that, “All things work together for good for those who love God.” I will never understand His ways, but all I can do is trust it. Even though we will all endure loss, we can create something new and beautiful from what we have left. In spirit, our loved ones accompany us along in our new journey. This honors the lives we’ve shared together as well as restoring our own sense of purpose.
Psalm 46:10 reminds us to “Be still…” and continue to manifest serenity into each day. In doing so, we will be able to discern our next steps in life’s adventure. Just as nature is wiggling her toes and fingers in the early spring, we too, will slowly feel the vibrancy of life through the light of unexpected circumstances and opportunities. Mother Teresa suggested we focus more on vocation rather than career, for that is where we find our true purpose. Imagine a blank canvas, an empty flower bed, or the blinking cursor on your laptop. The world is blooming for you to create something new!
My new plan is coming to fruition; however, I trust the plan God has intended for me, so I am working on letting go and allowing Him to guide me. Horatio Spafford wrote “It Is Well With My Soul”, which is a moving poem proclaiming faith and hope. We are not meant to understand God’s intentions, but as Psalm says, “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go.”
We all have something to give no matter how small. May faith, peace, and love accompany your way.